Holiday Fun Without the FOMO: The Ultimate Guide to Celebrating Away From Loved Ones

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Are you feeling the holiday blues because you can’t host a massive family gathering in your rental? Or maybe you’re frustrated that you can’t travel and be with your loved ones this holiday season. Either way, don’t let FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) dampen your festive spirit. As a renter, you can create magical holiday fun right in your apartment without breaking any lease rules or straining your budget.

This guide will show you how to transform your rental apartment into a cozy holiday haven and host memorable celebrations that will make everyone want an invitation. Here’s a quick preview:

  • Start by decorating your apartment
  • Create your own traditions
  • Stay connected with your loved ones virtually
  • Engage with your community
  • Practice mindfulness and self-care

Transform your space into a wonderland of holiday fun

Who says you need a huge house to create holiday magic? Start by maximizing your available space with creative decorating ideas that won’t damage walls or upset your landlord. For example, removable adhesive hooks are perfect for hanging wreaths and stockings. A tabletop Christmas tree or another holiday centerpiece can make a big impact in a small space. Also, don’t forget that battery-operated LED string lights around windows and doorways create a magical, warm atmosphere without any permanent installation.

String of lights and several candles on a window sill creating a warm, serene atmosphere, perfect for some holiday fun.

Next, window clings and removable decals offer festive accents that won’t damage surfaces, while holiday-scented flameless candles can set the perfect mood. You can also get creative with displaying holiday cards by using washi tape to create a temporary wall art installation that adds personality to your space without leaving marks.

Budget-friendly holiday fun ideas

We are all a bit more budget-conscious during the holiday season, but creating festive moments doesn’t require spending a fortune. One idea is to start a holiday book swap with friends, where everyone shares their favorite seasonal stories. You could also host a potluck where guests bring their signature dishes, creating a diverse and delicious spread while sharing the cost of entertaining. This could also be the theme for a great Friendsgiving or a Christmas lunch.

Close-up of several dishes on a table, part of a holiday fun potluck dinner.

When it comes to décor, making DIY decorations from natural materials can become a fun activity in itself while keeping expenses low. So, on your next walk in the park, look for some pine cones or fallen fir branches. These could be used to make lovely wreaths and tree or table decorations.

Host intimate gatherings with big impact

Small apartment spaces can lead to the most memorable holiday fun. So, consider hosting a cookie decorating party where you invite a few friends for an afternoon of creative fun. For this, set up a station with pre-baked cookies, different colored frostings, and various toppings. Not only does this create an engaging activity, but guests also get to take home their delicious creations.

Another idea is to transform your living room into a cozy cinema for a holiday movie marathon. Create individual snack boxes for guests, arrange floor pillows for extra seating, and queue up classic holiday movies. A hot chocolate bar adds an extra special touch that makes the experience unforgettable.

A small group of friends in a living room, having some drinks and enjoying some holiday fun.

Craft nights are another excellent way to create holiday fun in your rental. Host a DIY ornament-making session where everyone can let their creativity shine. It’s an engaging activity that gives participants something special to take home and remember the evening by.

Create new holiday traditions

Sometimes the best holiday fun comes from starting fresh traditions that work perfectly for your living situation. For instance, consider hosting a holiday brunch instead of dinner — it may require less space and can be just as festive, plus daytime gatherings often feel less pressured than evening events.

Another innovative solution is a progressive apartment party. This means you get to team up with neighbors to host different parts of the celebration across multiple units. One apartment handles appetizers, another main course, and so on, creating a unique and interactive experience that spreads the hosting responsibilities.

You could also explore international holiday theme nights, which can add an educational twist to your celebrations. So, gather all your friends and neighbors involved and dedicate different evenings to exploring cultural traditions from around the world throughout the festive season. This not only spreads out the fun but also creates unique learning experiences for everyone involved.

Outdoor and community extensions

Your holiday fun doesn’t have to be confined to the walls of your apartment. Why not turn your neighborhood into a festive playground by organizing a holiday lights walking tour? It’s a simple yet magical way to enjoy the season. Another option is to take advantage of your building’s common areas for small gatherings and even themed evenings to keep your community entertained this holiday season. Next, if you live in a place with mild winters, consider a holiday picnic in a nearby park, complete with seasonal treats and hot beverages.

Outdoor picnic table with Christmas decorations, perfect for some holiday fun.

Speaking of community living, it’s also important to keep your landlord happy while spreading holiday cheer. The first step is to review your lease for guest limitations and inform neighbors about planned gatherings.

Virtual holiday fun is underrated

Distance doesn’t have to mean disconnection in today’s digital age. Host virtual cookie baking sessions with family members across the country, sharing recipes and traditions while creating treats together. Online holiday game nights using apps can bring everyone together for laughs and competition, while other online platforms make it possible to watch holiday movies together even when physically apart.

Young man wearing Christmas hat drinking champagne holding sparkler talking to friends on virtual zoom video call for some holiday fun.

Another way you can connect with family far away is by opening your gifts over a video call. If exchanging gifts beforehand via post or delivery services is not possible, you can actually open them in front of the camera and exchange them in person the next time you see each other.

Managing holiday expectations

Remember that holiday fun isn’t measured by square footage, expensive gifts or successful planning. Sometimes, making the most of what you have and the situation you are in is the key to a memorable festive day. So, take it easy, focus on creating experiences rather than elaborate setups, and communicate plans early with family, friends, neighbors and even colleagues who might be open for the holiday celebrations.

Close-up of a self-care package, seasonal gift box with plastic free zero waste cosmetics products.

And don’t forget about self-care and mindfulness to avoid FOMO. For this, focus on being in the moment, limit social media consumption and maintain healthy routines with proper sleep, nutrition and exercise. Sometimes, a brisk outdoor walk can help shift your mood and energize you for what’s ahead.

Remember, some of the most memorable holiday moments happen in unexpected places. Your apartment can become the cozy setting for intimate gatherings, creative celebrations, and new traditions that your friends and family will look forward to year after year.

This holiday season, embrace your space’s unique potential for creating joy and connection. With these ideas and a positive attitude, you’ll be too busy having holiday fun to even think about FOMO. Share your creative celebration solutions with other renters, and let’s inspire each other to make this holiday season the most memorable yet.

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Alexandra Both is a senior creative writer with RentCafe. She has more than six years of real estate writing experience as a senior editor with Commercial Property Executive and Multi-Housing News. She is a seasoned journalist, who has previously worked in print, online and broadcast media. Alexandra has a B.A. in Journalism and an M.A. in Community Development.

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