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You\u2019re endlessly scrolling through rental listing websites, looking for that perfect new place to move into and, suddenly, an overpowering feeling of d\u00e9j\u00e0 vu hits you: You\u2019ve done this before. You\u2019ve read descriptions and looked at photos and wondered if it were something worth pursuing. Except, it wasn\u2019t a listing website \u2014 it was a dating app. And then, it dawns on you: Searching for a new apartment to rent<\/a> can be a lot like searching for a life partner \u2014 exhausting and, at times, feeling like you\u2019ll never find the right fit.<\/p>\n

So, just in time for the month of love, here\u2019s what to look for when swiping right on an apartment and a life partner \u2014 whether you\u2019re thinking about entering a rental relationship or a romantic one.<\/p>\n

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Confirm you\u2019re on the same page<\/h2>\n

Whatever your intentions are, make them clear from the get-go. Don\u2019t get yourself entangled in a situationship, especially if you\u2019re looking for a long-term contract. Not everyone is in it for the long haul, and you just might end up with a short-term lease when what you really wanted was that keyring on your finger for years to come.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s not just about looks<\/h2>\n

Maybe you took one glance and you\u2019re smitten. But, be careful: Those tall, dark closets can have skeletons in them. So, be sure to do a thorough check before moving in and consider other qualities, as well, such as location, layout, parking and storage space.<\/p>\n

Then, take your time and \u201cdate\u201d that apartment as much as you can before deciding to move in. Plus, unlike a regular date, you can bring a checklist<\/a> with you to make sure you have everything covered.<\/p>\n

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Is it fun to be around?<\/h2>\n

A relationship can quickly turn sour when boredom comes into play. For many, the perfect partner is exciting to be around, and the same applies when looking for an apartment. No matter what your interests are, make sure that you don\u2019t have to venture too far from your new home in search of a good time out on the town.<\/p>\n

Remember, a fun relationship is a long-lasting one, so check for restaurants, caf\u00e9s, parks, museums and any other forms of entertainment nearby when committing to a new apartment.<\/p>\n

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Are you giving more than you\u2019re getting?<\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s face it: Everyone loves a fixer-upper. So what if that wallpaper is a little bit damaged? You can change it, right? And, although that water leak is a small issue, the layout of the place is exactly what you were looking for, so it makes up for it.<\/p>\n

While some relationships are worth investing in, others are simply one-sided \u2014 and you don\u2019t want to be on the losing end. So, after you\u2019ve checked out every nook and cranny<\/a>, make a list of the pros and cons of the apartment you\u2019re considering. While you certainly want the positive to outweigh the negative, just remember that (much like the perfect partner) the perfect apartment is a rare find.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, if that relationship doesn\u2019t work out, you can always look for your next place on rentcafe.com<\/a> for a match made in rental heaven.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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